What do you think the Two Kingdoms are that I alluded to yesterday? His & Hers? Perhaps. You are deeply interested in getting your own needs met. You may try to virtuously deny your needs in favor his needs. But either way demands a particular response from your mate. And when you don’t get what you want, you look at him as the enemy of all that you deem good & wonderful … which is, of course, to have life on your own terms.
Unfortunately, you have lots of company in that.
We all do it when we’re under the deceiver’s influence.
And so many things in our culture contribute to the belief that man is woman’s enemy. One of those culturally sanctioned concepts is obvious (or oblivious) in the term “Her Kingdom.”
more about the Real Fight next time!
NOTE: Were it not for the death of Femininity, I would have said “Her Queendom.” But I’ll save that discussion for another day.