You’ve probably heard the saying that when a man marries a woman he’s hoping she’ll never change, whereas a woman marries a man hoping that he will. It’s actually more than a hope for her. He may actually be her Main Project. But men are not projects.
They are people.
More than likely, your goal is to change his behavior, But we would do well to remember that The Lord wants to change more than that. He wants to change your man’s heart. And yours.
You can partner with The Holy Spirit in the Process.
Simply put, it’s a woman’s job to love her man & pray for him. It’s God’s job to make him grow … according to His plan, not hers.
Your man wants to be your Leader in the Dance of Romance … to protect you, guide you, and hold you … to choreograph Your Dance to maximize your pleasure in being with him.
But much of the time we’re shooting ourselves in the foot by doing all the things that don’t work to change him … instead of doing things that do work to change him … things that he actually wants you to do to shape his behavior! Go figure.
We’ll be talking about this topic all week. So stay tuned!