You are called to love & honor your man. Simply put: A wise woman celebrates her husband for who he is without stumbling over who he is not.
Ask God to help you see your husband as He does & to encourage him with the truths The Lord tells you about him.
The Lord saw Gideon very differently than Gideon saw himself & sent an angel to tell him so. Subsequently, he was empowered to step into his identity as “a mighty man of valor” JUDGES 6:12–16.
You have the opportunity to be that kind of messenger for your husband.
I thank God for you every time you come to my mind. I ask Him to make you intelligent & discerning in knowing him personally — with your eyes focused & clear — so you can see exactly what He is calling you to do. EPHESIANS 1:18