You’ve probably heard the saying that when a man marries a woman he’s hoping she’ll never change, whereas a woman marries a man hoping that he will. It’s actually more than a hope for her. He may actually be her Main Project. Continue reading
Yes, men have rough edges. Rough enough sometimes to cut into your heart. Tempting you to become a “fixer.” However, a man can only follow one leader at a time.
- You want to change his behavior.
- But Jesus wants to change his heart.
If you’ve been following me for any time at all, you have learned that most men go through life with unmet emotional needs.
Men have a deep, God-given needs for our attention, acceptance, affection, appreciation, & admiration. Most of all they need empathy. Except when they don’t. Continue reading
That’s not an easy question to answer. At some point, it seems easier to just walk away. And that may be the best idea if you’ve not yet tied The Knot. Continue reading
We all feel it. The longing for connection. And frustration when it doesn’t happen. It’s a constant battle. One we need to learn how to fight victoriously. Continue reading
Our men are starving. That is, the majority of men are walking through life with unmet emotional needs. Many men, even those who are married, have given up hope. Continue reading
A decade after “The Psychology of Men” @ APU
Way back in 2008, I taught a full semester course on the psychology of men at Azusa Pacific University. As part of the course, we created a blog, The Psych of Men. One post is about Abraham Lincoln, including this quote:
“A woman is the only thing I am afraid of that I know will not hurt me.“