I’ve been studying men
since I was 4 years old.
But for more than half my life,
I was thoroughly confused by them.
Then I changed my angle to that of
a psychologist & couples counselor.
What I learned
thoroughly surprised me:
It’s really all about the girl.
Who knew, right?
THE BOTTOM LINE: My plan is to help us get what we want!
So check this out & let me know what you think.
p.s I realize that some of my readers are not currently involved in a romantic relationship. Maybe you’re one of them. But if you’re at all interested in enjoying a romance someday, you need to know this stuff. It will help you understand yourself better & help you choose wisely when the time comes.
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