The Psychology of Men and Marriage

Hello, you are welcome to explore this website.  However, please note that I am no longer accepting new clients.

Instead, I am devoting my time to writing. to creating resources and online courses for your Christian Marriage.

To learn what I’m doing now, please visit my main website @ DrDebiSmith.com

It really is about the girl.

I’ve been studying men
since I was 4 years old.

But for more than half my life,
I was thoroughly confused by them.

Then I changed my angle to that of
a psychologist & couples counselor.

What I learned
thoroughly surprised me:

It’s really all about the girl.

Who knew, right?

THE BOTTOM LINE: My plan is to help us get what we want!
So check this out & let me know what you think.

p.s I realize that some of my readers are not currently involved in a romantic relationship. Maybe you’re one of them. But if you’re at all interested in enjoying a romance someday, you need to know this stuff. It will help you understand yourself better & help you choose wisely when the time comes.

A Queen & Her King

I love to see a woman who knows how to love her man. She knows he’s sensitive to her. And she uses that knowledge to build him up.

She responds lovingly to the man that God created him to be. Affirming both who he is – as well as who he is is becoming.

How does she do it? A Queen gives her King something he cannot get anywhere else. She nurtures his heart. Something every man needs. Daily.

Check out these examples.

Build a Better Marriage

A strong marriage needs a confident & compassionate leader & a woman who knows the power of her influence in the Kingdom of Heaven on Earth. Setting a goal always begins with knowing where you are now.

Ask me how!

Dream with God

It’s God’s Dream, you know.

  • That man & woman would live as one in Him.
  • That together they’d rule over all Creation.

He placed His Dream in your heart, too.

  • So don’t give up.
  • Dream with God &
  • Celebrate His Presence.

God can do anything, you know — far more than you could ever imagine or guess or request in your wildest dreams! He does it — not by pushing us around but by working within us, his Spirit deeply & gently within us. EPHESIANS 3:20-21